I just finished watching "Drinking Buddies (2013)". It is not an action-packed thriller with super-heroes, war machines, elves, or magic. Nor is it a murder mystery, suspenseful spy adventure, or even a fairy-tale. If you are looking for any of those, go away (plenty of those elsewhere), this is not for you, but if you are game for a much rarer breed of film, stick around. This movie offers a window on the lives of four friends in a way that Hollywood rarely succeeds with such precision as was done here. The story unfolds naturally and as I watched I knew the characters were real. This is a "real" movie about "real" people. I don't mean the plethora of reality programs that convey nothing to the viewer. I mean real in the sense that the emotions, situations, and reactions that occur in the film are those that occur to real people.
As I watched, I recognized all of these people from real life. The situations reflect memories, not always my own, but of friends I have known. I laughed, I cried, and I reminisced with the characters as the story unfolded. I have not seen a film in recent history that was so effective at portraying real situations and emotions to the audience. This reflects not only the concept of the Joe Swanberg, but the effectiveness of the actors and actresses who interpreted his concept and brought it to life for us. My hats off to Joe Swanberg and his keenly selected cast of Anna Kendrick, Olivia Wilde, Jake Johnson, Ron Livingston, and the rest of the supporting cast; all of the characters were very real, not just believable.
One last note. Don't be fooled by the title, yes this film has a brewery, beer, and lots of drinking, but if you watch this film and think that's what it's all about, you missed everything. This film is about people; the brewery and the beer are just a very good vehicle to tell this story about the people. It is a reminder that good and bad things happen to everyone, and no one is alone. But on that note, if you don't drink, as I don't, be sure to have something, a Monster, Pepsi, glass of water, or cup of tea. You will want/need it before the end, and don't forget a box of tissues. You may not cry, but you will feel the characters' happiness, pain, sadness, and more, and then you might just cry too.
A very unique movie watching experience that will be in my permanent collection once available. Nicely done.