To what extent can women go in order to get the man of their dreams? Love is very powerful because love gives a person reason to live. True love is not a fight. You don't have to force something that is not meant to be. Akudo (Ibiwari Etuk) fought almost all the maidens in Umuafa kingdom because of a man. But one thing that separates the wise from the fool is understanding and mindset. It is indeed a test of love.