It's a very rare beast. Deeply personal, poetic and beautiful piece of cinema made inside the american bubble-gum film industry. It is definitely not intended for immature audience, that thrives on superhero movies or streaming service content (I won't even bother to call it films).
It's one of the most beautiful, impressionistic pieces of modern cinema. It's about family, it's about death, it's about perplexity of one's life, about a desperate attempts to understand it, to control all of it's chaotic and senseless elements, to navigate through this messy labyrinth of life.
I'm amazed at how people who wrote negative reviews don't even think of how intricate a film production is. Especially in States.
First of all, it's based on a book. Which was painstakingly written by an author, word by word, sentence by sentence. Then read and re-read by editors and publishers before it was printed. A lot of thought were put into it at the very initial stages of the process.
Then the filmmaking itself. It takes a year out of your life, a year during which you are constantly asking yourself and asked by others - what's is it, why are we doing it, why are we getting out of bed at ungodly hours and driving to the set, why are we working 12 to 14 hour shifts on this? What is it in this story that makes all of us work so hard?
DP's asking the questions, production designer's asking the questions, composer's asking the questions, every actor asking the questions (and not only about 'my motivation'). What is it? Why is it this way? That way? We need to know what it means, otherwise we can't provide right design, light, camera angles, emotions.
Film isn't made at director's whim, just because he never found anything better to do with his life.
There is no such thing as a meaningless film. There are pointless films, but there's always a meaning. The whole machine of film production needs this meaning to work.
This is the work of a true artist and thinker. Brilliant design, camerawork , actors, minimalistic music.
It's a shame that distributors didn't find a right audience for this brilliant piece.
You don't necessarily need to 'get it', but you should at least try to understand it and to feel it.